Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Baby has dropped...

At my appointment last Thursday, November 6, my nurse practioner told me that baby's head appeared to be engaged. (This means baby's head is now within the pelvic bones.) On Monday night, Jodi, our hypnobirthing specialist, and Tim both agreed that it looked like baby had dropped down in position. I have noticed that my heartburn is much reduced, so there must indeed be less pressure up at the top. I am also feeling lots more cramping in the lower abdomen, more lower back discomfort, and odd pelvic twinges. On Sunday, I felt like my pelvic bones were so loose that I was hobbling around the house for a few hours! Last night, for fun, I timed my Braxton Hicks contractions, and they were averaging about seven minutes apart, but still very irregular. I do sometimes wonder if the full moon tomorrow will start up my labor! But I'm hoping baby waits until my mother-in-law, Mary Anne, arrives Saturday, and until Lynn, my doula, gets over her new cold!

Right Occiput Anterior Nurse also mentioned that baby appears to by laying in an optimal position, Right Occiput Anterior, where baby's back is on my right side. Here is a neat website showing baby's head in the pelvis (scroll down): Fetal Position within the Birth Canal. [Other info from the appointment: blood pressure nice and low at 104/66, I passed the Strep B test, so no need for antibiotics at birth, baby passed the NST as usual, and fluid level was 13.8.]

So I suddenly feel like the end is near! The book, What to Expect When You Are Expecting, says that in first time moms, labor usually follows about two to four weeks after baby drops. I would love for baby to arrive on November 19th! In the meantime, Tim and I are practicing my relaxation techniques, I sit on my yoga ball instead of a desk chair all day (to open up the pelvis and strengthen my legs), continue my prenatal yoga, and drink my pregnancy tea, all in an effort to have a very smooth delivery. Here's hoping!

Ilona's baby has arrived!

My neighbor Ilona had her baby on Sunday morning, on my mother's birthday! Edward Constantine was born at 4:40 a.m., weighing 8 lbs. 1 oz., and was 21 inches long. Ilona was in labor for 12 hours, with 2 hours of active pushing at the end. Mother and baby are healthy, and should be home as of today.

Tim and I had shown Ilona and her mother our nursery on Friday night, and I touched her belly and said, "This might be the last time I see you pregnant!" I was supposed to go over on Saturday afternoon to see their nursery, but she must have left for the hospital around the same time!

Congratulations to Ilona and George on the birth of their first son! (I checked the web nursery at St. Lukes online but they don't have any pictures of baby posted: Web Nursery.)

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Baby shower in Missouri

Hostesses Bev and Kimberly with SusanOn October 4, my friend and ninth cousin (!) Beverly Land cohosted a baby shower for us at her home in Parkville. Kimberly Mensch, a good friend from my golf club who had long ago offered to host a shower if we ever fostered a child, was the cohost. (Bev and I both do genealogy which is how we figured out our relationship. She is technically my only family who lives locally!)

Guests at the showerThe invitation list included my neighbors (and former one who flew in from New York!) and golfing friends. Quite a few who could not attend sent gifts. I was taken aback by everyone's generocity and thoughtfulness! Tim enjoyed looking at the gifts after I brought them home. I did bring in my mother-in-law's bassinet to use as a backdrop and gift holder, which worked out quite well.

Baby shower giftsThe lovely gifts included Two handmade small quilts, Four boxed photo albums, Polka dotted sage crib skirt and sheets; Giraffe baby blankie, Sweet pea boppy, baby sign language set, breastmilk storage bags, breast flow bottles, "Guess How Much I Love You" book and soft matching rabbit, Chenille pastel baby blanket, "squeeze me" onesie, Irish pastel wool blanket, rosary beads, moo bib, peace signs onesie, silver feeding spoon, Wedgewood Beatrix Potter china set (bowl, plate, cup), Bathtub super scooper, sassy bath toys in bag, travel size Baby Johnson products, BRU gift card, Cowboys NFL bib autographed by Tony Romo, Jacksonville NFL bib autographed by Derrick Harvey, Peter Rabbit baby book, Beatrix Potter "wallies" cutouts, Hand woven pastel baby blanket (very soft and washable), 3-packs: bibs (I love grandma), too cute onesies, best of friends onesies, Gerber t-shirts; hat and sock set, playtex bottle liners, foam bath mat, Evenflo bottles, Bathtub, rubber ducky heat sensor, nasal aspirator, nail clipper with magnifying glass, and a High chair.

Frosted sugar cookies - yumThey served these absolutely delicious frosted sugar cookies -- and let me take home the extra! We also played a few games. The first one was to guess how many diapers were in a sturdy plastic case. Having purchased a few boxes of them over the past few weeks, I was closest at 150, which was probably an unfair advantage! In addition to getting to take this home as a gift, as a little prize Bev also gave me a "baby's first Christmas" ornament, the only one we've received! A second game was to match baby pictures to names, some of celebrities but mostly of the ladies present.

Pregnant neigbors Susan and IlonaOne of the guests was my next-door-neighbor, Ilona, who is due about three weeks before me. We did a belly comparison photo! At the time this photo was taken, I was at 32w2d, and Ilona was 35w0d.

I brought home with me a poster that Bev made that looked like a page from a November calendar. On it, the guests wrote their guesses for the baby's delivery date. So far, the guesses include November 11, 12, 14, 17, 22, 26 and 28. We shall see!

All in all, it was a wonderful shower filled with lots of beautiful blessings.

Halloween party

Tim and I were invited to a party at the home of a fellow member of the Kansas City Airport Rotary Club on Friday, October 24. I debated dressing up as Violet Beauregarde, the original girl from Willie Wonka who blew up into a giant blueberry after chewing gum at the Chocolate Factory. I had the perfect blue outfit and they were selling blue facepaint at our local Halloween store. But in the end, Tim and I decided to go dressed as the two main characters from the independent film, "Juno", that was released in 2007.

You will want to click on this to enlarge it:
Juno Halloween costumes
We actually saw that movie while in our hotel room in Denver while I was on two day's bedrest after having little baby transferred inside! Tim enjoyed the irony of us dressing up as two high schoolers facing an accidental pregnancy.

So at the party, only a few people figured out the costumes. The cutest was the home owner's soon-to-be daughter-in-law who was afraid to come right out and ask if I was Juno. But when she asked what we were, she immediately said, "Oh I knew it. When we were leaving the house to pick up the pizza and you two walked by, I said, do you think that is Juno and Bleeker?" Others wondered if it was a real baby or a pillow.

The most infamous comment I got was, "Don't feel bad. I didn't wear a costume tonight either." Keep in mind this was a party at a nice home and everyone was either dressed in costume or dressed up. Did this complete stranger REALLY think I dressed so sloppily??! I had to laugh. I did carry a copy of the movie poster with me, taped inside my hoodie, to show the clueless.

The only bad part of the evening was the quantity of food that I ate: two Mexican "egg rolls", two shrimp cocktail, two mini crab cakes, handfuls of chips and Doritos and Cheetos, TONS of spinach dip with brown bread (then with my pizza crust), two slices of bacon pizza (mmmm), one slice of spicy chicken and garlic pizza, a slice of delicious pumpkin cake with cream cheese drizzle frosting, and a brownie. I drank Sprite all night. I paid the price for the debauchery by waking up at midnight with terrible heartburn. Three Rolaids later, I was surfing the net for homeopathic remedies. In the end, an apple eaten at midday finally quelled the pain!

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Baby has hair and other great updates

I have a lot to update on, but I thought I should at least post the news from today's visit to the OB's office. I go twice a week now to the office to do something called "NST" which is nonstress testing. They hook my belly up to two monitors: one for baby's heart rate and one for my uterus activity (baby's movement, contractions, etc.). They want to see the heart rate rise by ten beats per minute (BPM) at least twice in twenty minutes. This indicates that as baby moves around and needs more oxygen to support the movement, that the placenta produces more oxygen in the blood flow to baby. Thus the placenta is healthy and continues to support baby. They do the NST for all women over the age of 35 in this office, starting about week 34. I go in on Mondays and Thursdays for this testing.

Baby has been passing the NSTs without trouble. Heartbeat has averaged 145 or 150 BPM. Today, baby was so active, they had to move the heart rate monitor to find a better spot to measure it from! Baby's heart rate did drop once to 120 BPM today and when I asked if that was of concern, the nurse told me that baby had probably hit the umbillical cord.

On Thursdays, they add a second test, this one is a small ultrasound scan used to measure the pockets of amniotic fluid that surrounds baby. They can't count pockets that have baby parts in them, like the cord or a foot. So the first week, the fluid level was 9.8, but there was one pocket with the cord in it. They look for levels between 5 and 20. The second week, fluid level was 16. Today, they measured it at 14.6. Having a nice amount of fluid makes it easier for baby to move around.

After this test, I was brought in for our Week 36 growth ultrasound. A student nurse was at the controls in the beginning, and she was supposed to be measuring things like the length of the forearm. She focused in on the heart and said, "And there is baby's heart with all four quadrants showing." I smiled and said, "I tend to think of it as a two chamber heart." But I'm sure she didn't know what I meant. (Later when I laughingly mentioned it to the doctor, she agreed that the student had probably no idea why the heart appeared a little different from the ones she is used to seeing.) She showed me baby's full bladder and the bean shaped kidney. After a few minutes, she left and the regular nurse technician took over. She finished up the measuring, and did some scanning. She was videotaping this on our tape, too. As she was scanning, she pointed out an area on the back of baby's head and announced, "Your baby has a little patch of hair here, just above the neck." She told me to avert my eyes at another point, then too late realized she had videotaped baby's gender! She had to stop and rewind the tape until all was clear. Pretty funny. Baby is still head down, with the back running up along the right side, butt near the top, feet sticking out the left side.

So baby is 6 pounds 11 ounces! (Weights can be up to a pound off in either direction.) This places baby smack in the middle (50th) percentile. Not too big, not too small. What an awesome, healthy size! Baby will now continue to grow one ounce a day until birth. In other terms of measuring, baby measures at 37 weeks 2 days, with an estimated delivery date of 18 November.

I asked the tech if the office had one of those 3D u/s machines and she said yes, but that they did not use it very often. She thought about it then added, "But your baby is in the right position, so we can probably get a good scan." She finished up with the ultrasound, wiped the goo off my belly, then brought me into another room. She got me situated again and this time we got to see three dimensional views of baby's head. It was so amazing. I have never liked 3D scans of babies since I think they look pretty scary, so wasn't really interested in getting one done. I had hoped to do one near the end of this pregnancy just to see if we could pick up some signs of a chromosomal disorder like a cleft palate. The tech said they rarely show, though. But she did mention that with downs babies, they do tend to see the longer tongues sticking out. She took about ten pictures. Here is the last one she took, the only one in "color": You can see baby's hand covering up the right side of his or her face. Baby's eyes are closed and lips were a bit pouty. I thought the baby resembled my father-in-law, Tom!

The doctor came in to do a quick scan of her own. She said there was no fluid collecting around the lungs or heart, so no signs of heart disease. She said everything looked very good. She said baby was adorable. They say that to all the moms, don't they?!

Lastly, I headed off to my prenatal appointment. My blood pressure was 103/64, nice and low. I've gained 3/4 pound in past two weeks. I had a small amount of protein in my urine, but still in the normal range, so nothing that concerns them. But they will keep an eye on it, as elevated levels can be a sign of preeclampsia (hypertension). I also had to do a Group B strep test (with a swab) to see if I am one of 30% of women who carry this bacteria on the skin. If I am, then I will require two rounds of antibiotics via IV when I go into labor to protect baby during birth. The nurse practitioner (NP) checked me for swelling and said I have very little. Overall, I am still having a very healthy pregnancy and doing well. I will start having weekly prenatal appointments now.

I asked what their policy was for induction, since in my first trimester one of the OBs had said to me that they do not let women over the age of 40 go past their due dates. The NP made me very happy by telling me that they prefer their healthy mothers-to-be to go into labor naturally, even allowing them to go seven to ten days past their due dates. By trying to do an induction when the mother and baby haven't shown any signs of labor, they are increasing the woman's risk of having a c-section, she admitted. So they will continue to monitor the placenta twice a week (with those NSTs) and my overall health.

I was at the office for two hours. But I just loved the things I learned today! What a great day!

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Belly shots collage

This is a collage of the belly shots Tim has been taking of me since I was four weeks pregnant. We only missed one week when he was traveling, week 19. These go all the way to last week, when I was finally 32 weeks pregnant. Be sure to click on the collage to enlarge it.
Belly shots collage at 32 weeks

Christening gown

Christening gownWhen I returned from Martha's Vineyard this summer, I brought with me the family Christening gown that Mom and Dad bought in Lisbon, Portugal in May 1980. This gown (click image to enlarge) is almost thirty years old! It was still in its original box, yellowed, with some stains on the front. So I sent it to the dry cleaners a few weeks ago, and they were able to make it look very white and clean again, along with the bonnet.

Also inside the box were two pairs of booties and a list of the babies who have worn the gown. They were (all cousins or siblings):
  1. Justin Alexander Power - 9 Nov 1980
  2. Brandon Thomas Power - 12 Jun 1983
  3. Brian Michael McGrath - 28 Oct 1984
  4. Sean Douglas Brown - 19 Aug 1990
  5. Colin Leo Power - 13 Oct 1991
Due to the uncertain nature of events that will occur, we are tossing around the idea of having the baby baptized right away in the hospital after birth, followed by a more formal Baptism a few months later at our church. That might be a good time for some family to visit.